Sunday 22 July 2012

Facing the Society

I've been so busy since school started. I have work after work to do and I'm going crazy.
Finally, Sunday has arrived. I thought I would sleep till noon but my friends came over, all 14 of them as we had to do a project. So goodbye to sleep, it was work again but fun though.
A lot of things has been going on. First of all, I broke up. I'm single now. What happened? It didn't work out, simple. He's in 12th grade and a medical science student. He either had to go to his classes or i had to do my homework, or I was usually busy and I couldn't keep up with it. So I ended it. There's a lot more to it which only two of my best friends know and I would want it to be kept a secret that way. And since he was such an oh-so-nice guy, people have been thinking that I'm a mean person. They give me cold stares.
Second thing is that I've started to become really good friends with Mihir. He's a really nice person and we're like best friends now, and this fact is bothering the society. My friends don't like me being such good friends with him. I don't know why. The latest school rumor?- Me and Mihir. There's nothing going on but people like to talk so I can't do anything about it. We're just keeping our friendship low-key now. We don't talk on Facebook and in real life we just kinda laugh and smile. We do not hang out. But we do talk a lot on the phone, if we get to do so.
My best friend Pragya has been acting weird lately. I haven't figured out yet what exactly is going on but something definitely is. She has been a lot sarcastic lately and she has been using synonyms and metaphors a lot while she speaks.
And one more thing about my current life, I've put up a note on my mirror saying 'Remember to shut-up'. I don't talk behind people's back, i say it to them and if they can't take up the truth then I just don't care about it and let it go. But people don't. They whine, they complain, they become bitchy. I hate that. So i just think shutting up is the best when I'm around people.
Mihir doesn't become a bitch and complain. He accepts the truth and just moves on. That's the best thing I like about him! He's so awesome! lol
So basically, I've been facing society these days. Rumors, cold stares, fake smiles and what more? 

Tuesday 19 June 2012

Skirts are cute, aren't they? :)

Is it just me or am I starting to like skirts? I've had different phases in my life. From Barbies to Ripped Jeans, from Ripped jeans to XL T-shirts, from XL t-shirts to plaid shirts, and now, It's all about skirts and shorts. New Delhi, the capital of India, is as hot as ever. It has been around 5 degrees away from 50degrees. And to keep cool, skirts and shorts have been a life saver! Fashion could be the last thing on my mind, if I was still 12 yrs old. Now, I know what I like and I wear what I like. Teen Years :)I will be posting some of my outfits really soon! >.<

And yes, me and my band will soon be meeting up and make a cover. Be sure to check it out. Thankyou :>

Tuesday 5 June 2012

I just wanna make Music :)

Quick update: This blog is no longer a dual blog. It's just going to be me, Joy, posting on the blog. Pragya has decided to make her own blog when she is really ready for it. I'll let you guys know when she makes a blog :)


Everybody out there have thought about the future at some point in their life. And everybody, I'm sure, has a dream to become something or to make something. So, my dream is to make it big in the music industry. I want to sing. Simple but complicated. I live in India and what I've heard from people is that it would be hard to make it big like other artists. Most of them don't find 'music' as a career in life. They tell me it can be a hobby but not a career. But take it from the words of our own Father of the Nation, Mahatma Gandhi. "You can be the change you want to see in the world."- Gandhi 
I believe that I can make it big and change people's mindset about music being a career. 
These days, there are so many out there who can sing very well. Nowadays, you need originality more than quality. I haven't been taking much steps towards it. Well, all I've done so far is sing for the school choir and a few charities. Haven't made an account on YouTube yet. I'll soon be taking vocal lessons and learn music. Just sitting at home and playing the guitar won't make me discovered. So I will cover a song and post it here on the blog. Tell me what you guys think of it because your thoughts and advises count ;) It would mean a lot to me!


So, tell me what your dreams are and what have you been doing to achieve them? :)

Sunday 3 June 2012

Love Triangle?

Sunday evening. On the phone with Pragya. She was telling me about an old friend of mine, Darren. Darren and I were great friends when we were in 5th grade. We talked for hours and hours. We didn't hang out much, but when we did, it was memorable! He was my best friend. Then, the love bug came between us during the summer of 2009 and we started dating. When he asked me out, I replied 'no' because I didn't want to lose what we had. But then he sounded like he was ready and was up for it. So I said 'yes'. We dated for around 5 months. And those weren't the best 5 months of my life, honestly. We lost touch in between because of our exams and studies. Then, some of my friend frequently asked me about a girl named, Gigi. They said there was something going on between her and Darren. She was a childhood friend of his, but soon things seemed like they were more than friends. So I broke it off with him. Didn't have the guts to call, so I texted. And he NEVER texted back! Yeah, I was very down. And he was my first love. Time passed and I found another guy but he never loved me back.
    Me and Darren lost touch. We just wished each other on our birthdays and said we should meet up soon but it never happened. Then this year, our schools had planned an exchange program to France. So because of it, we were back in touch and during the 15 days in France we became really good pals again, nothing more than that. He became like a huge flirt and thus, he flirted around with almost every girl, and I was and still am in a relationship. A few things did get a bit flirty between us and my bf got pretty heated up. But I didn't feel anything for Darren, honestly. Things were kind of tense between me and my bf so I guess it just seemed a bit flirty between me and Darren. When somebody treats you like shit...and there's another person who treats you well, you'd definitely like the other person. But I didn't fall for him, he did. And that's what Pragya was telling me about. Me and all my friends recently met. And Darren asked Pragya a lot about me. He told her that he feels bad for not treating me well before and how lucky my bf is right now. He kind of wishes to have me back. But then there's hardly any chances, she said. And it''s true. I don't want to date guys like him anymore, and I love my bf a lot. Well, he hasn't called or texted the whole day. In fact, he hasn't been the one calling me for around 5 days! 

Me and Darren are planning to form a band. And we're getting to be better friends so I don't think I would want to make the same mistake again. Although he told Pragya that, what he did was when he was a stupid kid. I like taking risks, but at the moment, it's not going to lead me any where good. 

-Joy

Friday 1 June 2012

Intoduction

This is our first entry. Yes, 'our' first entry. It's not only me, but with my best-friend Pragya. This blog will be about the daily drama we face and the daily thinking we do to solve them. 

So, my name is Joy and I'm writing this blog with my best friend Pragya. We'll sign off our names at the end of each post so you could guess who's writing what.
Me and Pragya are different, quite different, but at the end of the day we come together as sisters. :) 
So we can't just tell you are likes and dislikes because there's a lot of difference. Haha...never knew we'd meet each other. We thank God everyday for giving us each other and letting us be awesome friends. 

You might think it's just another blog of teenage drama, but we'll make sure we keep you reading ;)